Putting Down the Heavy Backpack

The Sunday Signal - 15 Feb 2026

We spend much of our lives feeling like struggling swimmers.

We kick and stroke in the current, head above water, trying to navigate a course we have charted. We believe we are separate agents - independent of the water, the shore, and each other - striving to impose our will on the world.

It is an exhausting way to live. It saddles us with the weight of “doership” - the heavy backpack of belief that we alone are responsible for controlling outcomes, for winning, for surviving.

But what if the struggle is based on an illusion?

The Unbroken Chain

If we look through the lens of classical physics, the universe is a single, uninterrupted chain of cause and effect. From the moment of the Big Bang, matter and energy have expanded and interacted according to immutable laws.

In this view, the thought you are having right now and the movement of your hand to scroll down this page are not isolated events generated by a standalone “you.” They are the current edge of a wave that started 14 billion years ago. Of course, the dance of these forces is incredibly intricate, complex and largely untraceable inside our skins and nervous systems. But it remains undeniably part of the larger system.

Taoism points to this same reality but with a more organic vocabulary. It speaks of the Tao - the singular rhythmic principle of reality. Just as a tree blossoms not by effort but by nature, the universe unfolds. There is no manager in the sky pulling levers. And - here is the scary part - there is no separate “you” inside your head pulling levers either.

The Eddy in the Stream

So, if everything is One Flow, what are you?

You are like an eddy in a stream.

An eddy has a distinct shape and form; we can point to it and name it. It seems to have a life of its own, persisting even as the water rushes through it. But the eddy is not separate from the stream. It is the stream, swirling in a specific pattern for a specific time due to the contours of the riverbed and the pressure of the current.

The complexity and self-referencing in human “eddies” mean you have the sense of trying to cling to your shape or fight the flow that sustains you. This creates turbulence. It creates stress. But when your “eddy” recognises itself not as the pattern but as the flow, you realise the flow cannot harm you.

Setting Down the Backpack

Realising that we are part of the One Flow allows us to set down the heavy backpack of control.

This doesn’t mean we become passive or stop acting. We still make decisions, we still love, we still strive. But we do so with the understanding that our decisions, our love, and our striving are the universe acting through us. All will happen with or without the stress and struggle of the Sense of Separate Self, but it is far more peaceful without.

We realise that:

• The Past: Could not have been otherwise. It was the necessary unfolding of reality.

• The Present: Is the only thing that could be happening right now.

• The Future: Will follow the same principle.

There is a profound relaxation in this. We may stop treading water and realise we are floating. We are in a derivative sense a temporary pattern (an eddy) in Life’s flow, but we are more fundamentally that flow itself. Beyond harm, expressing and experiencing itself with absolute ease.

You do not have to battle the river. You are the river.

This Week’s Satsang

On Thursday, 19 Feb, we are going to explore this radical shift in perspective. The storyline resonates in physics and Taoist philosophy, but more importantly, we will look at the experience of letting go of the illusion of separate control.

Join us to set down the backpack. (Link below).

See you there,

Doug

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