Perfect Imperfection
The Sunday Signal - 5 April 2026
It’s easy to picture “Waking Up” as the climb toward a perfect peak where the view is finally clear and the struggle is over. But listen to those who’ve “made it”, and the message is pretty consistent:
From the Path, only the Destination looks perfect, but from the Destination, the entire Path is seen as perfect.
Oh, and also that the “Destination” is really no destination at all but rather a way of continuing to walk the Path.
Might it be that the fairy-tale image of enlightenment is a devilish little trick in our direct experience of the perfection inherent in this and every moment?
Dirty Enlightenment
Awakened life brings neither the satisfaction of all our preferences nor the evaporation of those preferences into a blissful buzz of indifference. No sage leaves behind psychotherapist Phil Stutz’s inescapables: Pain, Uncertainty and the Need for Constant Work.
A more sober view of awakening (I like Peter Brown’s term, “Dirty Enlightenment”) is the realisation that the negative aspects of your life - the stresses, failures and heartaches - along with the macro problems of the world - abuse, hunger, disease and war - are not cosmic mistakes.
Of course those stresses conflict with your preferences and invite your judgement, just as abuse and war offend us all. The “Problem of Pain” challenges any spiritual view, especially for readers/listeners in or near extreme suffering. But the hope is that, perhaps, there is a larger perspective in which the full range of highs and lows is both legitimate and somehow “okay”.
The Radiant Yes
There is no denying the Radiant Yes that reality has given to even the most universally abhorred outrages, let alone our mundane gripes. Reality Expresses and Experiences itself - its Whole self - in One outpouring flow. Positive and negative. Desired and despised.
Any person’s existence is a part of that expression, and that person’s sentient life is part of that experience.
We are not separate but a part of that One Flow. And anything we experience has already received the Radiant Yes of manifestation. That one flow contains both personal pain and the wish it weren’t here. It contains both disease and the consensus refusal to see suffering as okay.
Reality is whole and comprehensive, unbothered by contradiction, able to hold opposites and perfect in itself.
Depth
If we shift metaphors from the stream to the ocean, we might touch upon a sense of what does seem to differentiate awakened experience from life “before the destination”.
On the early path, a person takes herself to be a wave on the ocean. A temporary but distinct form moving, interacting with other waves, and at death subsiding back into the sea. With awakening, she realises that she is in fact the sea - before, during and after the wave’s existence. In a derivative sense, she is also the wave, but essentially, she is the water in which all waves move and of which all waves are composed.
The sea experiences every wave, all the tumult at its surface as the weather dances with it - sometimes gracefully, others wildly. But the sea also has thousands of metres of depth, nearly all of which is literally untouched by any commotion above.
The awakened person feels and must weather the thousand-fold difference between a one centimeter ripple and a ten-metre foaming breaker in her life. But realising her essential nature as the sea puts that into a perspective of immeasurable depth and ballast.
In the midst of any turbulence and soon after any shock, she is likely to know and feel Julian of Norwich’s underlying, “All is well, and all shall be well.”
The Circular Path
The archetypal hero’s journey is a circular one. She ventures from mundane life onto an adventure (for our purposes, a spiritual path). Much happens - perils, failures and ultimately victory. She gains the prize (awakening). Then she returns home to see the old place in a new light, and to share her boon.
The real voyage of discovery consists, not in seeking new landscapes, but in having new eyes. - Marcel Proust
The world she returns to has no fewer imperfections than the one she left. Yet now, by virtue of having walked the path, she sees how perfect each one is.
Want to wake? Walk, my friend. Walk.
See you at the frontier,
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